2015

xxpjxxx:

xxpjxxx:

jess-amelia:

“Even the good people, the ones you dream of meeting, fuck up. People aren’t perfect and loving someone means handing them a gun and trusting them not to shoot you. But we’re all human and sometimes we get scared and we panic, accidentally pulling the trigger. That doesn’t mean that they don’t love you… it just means that Life doesn’t come with an instruction manual and sometimes we do the wrong thing. So do you banish them from your life and try to forget their existence when you might have made the very same mistake if the roles were reversed? If they shot you and are begging for forgiveness, willing to do anything to make it up to you, do you give them another chance and hope that the good you see in them will overcome the bad? Or do you just shut down and walk away?”

— I guess it depends what kind of person you want to be - Jess Amelia 

THIS. YES.

Over and over, a million times. This.

(Source: jessamelia.ca)

probablyfvckboy:

explorationadoration:

People always say, “if it’s not mean to be, it’s not meant to be” or “that if it wasn’t meant to be then u wouldn’t be in that position.” I don’t believe in that. You have the reins to your life and your relationships. If you want someone there, grab the reins and work your ass off for them to be there. If you want to live in a certain city, fucking move there. If you want a particular job then work your ass off and get it. And if you don’t get it, keep working your ass off until you’re proud of the progress and the goals you’ve reached. This isn’t a movie where you just sit back and relax to watch and see what happens to you. Make what you want to happen, happen. I don’t want to hear that bullshit of “oh well, I guess it just wasn’t meant to be” You rule your life, so get the shit done that you want to see happen in your life and be happy. Life’s too short to wait around on the world to hand you stuff. Sorry, rant over.

Everyone needs to see this.

(via ride-thewave)

theorydictatespractice:

I heard something the other day that I had never really thought about before. Someone mentioned to me that whenever you catch yourself missing someone who left your life, you should remind yourself that them not being part of your present is a consistent choice they make every day. They wake up and decide to maintain the silence. They’re indifferent as to whether the space between you gets larger. And that in itself is pretty powerful closure.

(via xxpjxxx)

fuckin-problem:

if I’m ever silent, here are a few reasons why:

1. Overthinking everything and anything

2. Tired of waiting for something I want to happen

3. Stressing the fuck over everything

4. Need a huge ass hug

5. Slowly breaking apart

6. Crying over everything possible

7. All the above at once

(via the-pursuit-0f-happiness09)

thegay-aesthetic:

hungryhijabii:

And there will be nights when your life will fall apart and no one will notice the mornings you spend putting it back together.

Hallelujah 🙌🏼

(Source: moonlittmusings, via babyboxer13)